
It
has been said that society supports the notion that getting married should be
easier than obtaining a drivers license, or practically anything else - even a
divorce. We however believe that easy access to marriage without
structured preparation can be problematic to many newly married couples.
Since
we do much work with couples and families at Mayfair Counselling Service, we have an
excellent knowledge base with which to help couples establish marriage as a long
term journey. We offer a brief four session comprehensive program affording two
individuals time to explore the nature of their relationship. While the
needs of the couples vary in each group, there are some common issues that are
helpful to explore. Issues to be examined may include styles and
effectiveness of communication, temperaments, beliefs around sex, money, child
rearing, division of labour/roles, etc. Our structured program offers our
expertise to examine current irritants between couples, problem solving styles
and strategies, beliefs around conflict, common goals, as well as the nature of
their attraction, what brought them together and their strengths.
Participation in our marriage preparation program provides couples with skills, information and the
tools, necessary in order to create a foundation for a committed long term
relationship.
We
always prefer to work with an eager couple entering marriage than with a couple
that is pondering exiting a marriage. Because we are marriage and family
therapists we are well equipped in offering such programs and are well aware of
what is needed to create a strong bond and committed marriage. We welcome
all referrals.